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The consequences of expecting invalidation
This is part 5 in a 5-part series on the magic of unshaming. In Moon to Moon (https://brittenlarue.com/course/moon-to-moon/) , together we root down into the truth that the Moon-self is the you who cannot be invalidated. This is my offering to invite you into a life of receiving, so you can share what you receive with all of us. ** ———————————————————— Across this series, we’ve looked at: 1: (https://mailchi.mp/brittenlarue/everyone-is-intuitive-we-all-have-the-clairs-17334750) the nuanced distinctions between self-shaming and self-confrontation. 2: (https://mailchi.mp/brittenlarue/everyone-is-intuitive-we-all-have-the-clairs-17334834) how unshaming has opened up our capacity to hold regret. 3: (https://mailchi.mp/brittenlarue/everyone-is-intuitive-we-all-have-the-clairs-17334906) how the kink for our badness is a story for safety. 4: (https://mailchi.mp/brittenlarue/everyone-is-intuitive-we-all-have-the-clairs-17334962) on the yearning to feel seen and what happens when we give that to ourselves. Most of…
The longing to feel seen
This is part 4 in a 5-part series on the magic of unshaming to effect nourishing and empowering ways of being for yourself and your worlds. This approach is what I teach in my annual fall course Moon to Moon (https://brittenlarue.com/course/moon-to-moon/) . In M2M, I teach how I relate to my past and future selves to protect the present moment from my (conscious and unconscious) fear of it. Whether you join M2M this year or not, I hope the contemplations I share in this notes will inspire and support you in being human right now. ** ———————————————————— In the first email (https://mailchi.mp/brittenlarue/everyone-is-intuitive-we-all-have-the-clairs-17334750) of this series, I talked about the nuanced distinctions between self-shaming and self-confrontation. In the second (https://mailchi.mp/brittenlarue/everyone-is-intuitive-we-all-have-the-clairs-17334834) ,…
My kink for badness
This is part 3 in a 5-part series on the magic of unshaming to effect nourishing and empowering ways of being for yourself and your worlds. This approach is what I teach in my annual fall course Moon to Moon (https://brittenlarue.com/course/moon-to-moon/) . In M2M, I teach how I relate to my past and future selves to protect the present moment from my (conscious and unconscious) fear of it. Whether you join M2M this year or not, I hope the contemplations I share in this notes will inspire and support you in being human right now. ** ———————————————————— In the first email (https://mailchi.mp/brittenlarue/everyone-is-intuitive-we-all-have-the-clairs-17334750) of this series, I talked about the nuanced distinctions between self-shaming and self-confrontation. In the second (https://mailchi.mp/brittenlarue/everyone-is-intuitive-we-all-have-the-clairs-17334834) ,…
Unshaming Regret
This is part 2 in a 5-part series on the magic of unshaming to effect nourishing and empowering ways of being for yourself and your worlds. This approach is what I teach in my annual fall course Moon to Moon (https://brittenlarue.com/course/moon-to-moon/) . In M2M, I teach how I relate to my past and future selves to protect the present moment from my (conscious and unconscious) fear of it. Whether you join M2M this year or not, I hope the contemplations I share in this notes will inspire and support you in being human right now. ** ———————————————————— In my last email (https://mailchi.mp/brittenlarue/everyone-is-intuitive-we-all-have-the-clairs-17334750) , I talked about the nuanced distinctions between self-shaming and self-confrontation. In our loving relationships, it’s so clear…
Self-shaming vs. self-confrontation
** ———————————————————— Self-shaming is not self-confrontation. Self-shaming is a re-enactment rooted in the past. Self-confrontation is an attunement to your truth in the present moment. Self-shaming is not alchemical. (It doesn’t change anything.) Self-confrontation is an invitation to transform. Self-shaming is ostensibly about betterment, but the truth is it has a kink for feeling bad. (More on our kink for badness in Part 3 of this 5-part series.) Self-confrontation sits with discomfort as a means to move toward nourishing change. The discomfort gets metabolized and it becomes something else. Something soft. Even sweet. As long as we center pain in our healing path, we will choose self-shaming over self-confrontation. Unshaming is self-confrontation. This means discomfort is sometimes present in the…
Trying to be understood is an energy leak
NOTE: below, there’s time-sensitive information about Early Bird for Moon to Moon (https://brittenlarue.com/course/moon-to-moon/) : my foundational course in intuition, inner child healing, and The Moon for those who have been waiting all year to join, or who will feel an instant Yes and want $100 off tuition. Under the Moon in Sagittarius, I write with some contemplations on what we’re learning this Mercury Retrograde in the hopes that my words will support you with where you’re at. I was reflecting on a theme I keep seeing in every conversation, and these are the words I heard from my inner voice: What are the energetic consequences of straining to get someone to understand you? How many hours of your day are…
We're gettin' pregnant
Just as our understanding of astrology can only be partial, because it’s so much more than we humans can fathom all at once, so your understanding of yourself is incredibly partial. You come into Emergence Astrology because you are so brave and so curious to find out more about who you are. It takes a lot of audacity because you have to be willing to surrender expectations around what that vastness looks like. In this way, it’s a lot like getting pregnant. You don’t get to control what kind of baby you have. That’s what we’re doing in the 9-month hermitage phase of Year One. Making babies. Some facet of you knows that your perception of yourself is part bullshit.…
When I quit aestheticizing my suffering
One of the most painful things I had to surrender was my infatuation with the picture of myself as a beautiful, wounded bird. The mystical hermitage period after my separation back in 2017-2018 was utterly life-changing. I became acquainted with guidance from the other side of the visible world who were showing me my gifts as a seer and speech-artist of astrology. They showed me pictures of myself as a public astrologer, author, and business woman, a teacher and mentor to creative visionaries. This was wildly delusional at the time given that I’d only just started learning astrology and the tarot. I had only just discovered my innate capacity for ritual, ceremony, and intuitive space-holding. And I was paying bills…
This courtship with astrology is dangerous
Quick Announcements Are you a witch in Chicago or are you friends with witches in Chicago? Make sure to check out the summer solstice faire at Sideshow Gallery (https://www.sideshowgallerychicago.com/events-gallery-openings/summer-solstice-celebration) next weekend June 21-23. It’ll be a big market with vendors and teachers. I am flying up for it and doing a free book talk Friday night and a ticketed Unshaming the Signs workshop (https://www.sideshowgallerychicago.com/classes-services/unshaming-the-signs-workshop) for up to 12 people! New episode alert: “Astrology Has a This Side & a That Side” (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/moon-to-moon/id1503553925?i=1000658482760) The first half of my adulthood, I participated from the lens of my shame. When I say participation what that looks like to me is choices. The choice to act or not act. The choice to connect or…
Emergnce is what pokes through from the other side
“This Is Emergence Astrology” Free Talk (https://brittenlarue.teachable.com/p/this-is-emergence-astrology) tonight, 6-7 pm CST, with replay available and downloadable after. $200 off at all price tiers (https://brittenlarue.com/course/emergence-astrology-year-one/) for my brand new Emergence Astrology Year One course during Early Bird starting tomorrow and Friday only, June 6-7. Mark your calendar if you know you’re a Yes. A lot of the time when we’re learning astrology, there’s this sense of “I don’t get this” or “I can’t do this.” The “this” being a set of rules and techniques and a bank of knowledge that you feel the urgency to “get your head around,” or else. In Emergence Astrology, there is no “this” to get right or wrong. It’s not to say there isn’t structure. But…